Love and arrange mariage

A student asks a teacher, "What is love? “The teacher said, "in order

to answer your question, go to the wheat field and choose the biggest

wheat and come back.

But the rule is: you can go through them only once and cannot turn

back to pick."

The student went to the field, went thru first row, he saw one big

wheat, but he wonders....maybe there is a bigger one later.

Then he saw another bigger one... But he thinks maybe there is an even

bigger one waiting for him.

Later, when he finished more than half of the wheat field, he start to

realize that the wheat is not as big as the previous one he saw, he

know he had missed the biggest one, and he regretted.

So, he ended up went back to the teacher with empty hand.

The teacher told him, "this is love... You keep looking for a better

one, but when later you realize, you have already missed the person."

"What is marriage then?" the student asked.

The teacher said, "in order to answer your question, go to the corn

field and choose the biggest corn and come back. But the rule is: you

can go through them only once and cannot turn back to pick."

The student went to the corn field, this time he is careful not to

repeat the previous mistake, when he reach the middle of the field, he

has picked one medium corn that he feel satisfy, and come back to the

teacher.

The teacher told him, "this time you bring back a corn.... You look

for one that is just nice, and you have faith and believe this is the

best one you get.... This is marriage."___